Wednesday, December 1, 2010
How to Attract A Woman: The Best Ways to Handle Physical Contact
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How to Attract A Woman: The Best Ways to Handle Physical Contact
Written By Tiffany Taylor
Touching/physical contact is an absolutely vital component of
seduction. You can’t successfully pick-up a girl without first
establishing a basic level of mutual tactility – I.E. Before you can
move in for the kill by kissing and/or sleeping with her, you MUST first
have a regular, healthy amount of touching that works both ways: she
flirtatiously puts her hand on your knee, you encircle her waist with
your arm and pull her a little closer – whatever form the physical
contact takes, it has to be present for you to achieve your final goal
of actual seduction.
And that right there is where the problem for many
men lies:
How can a guy get the ball rolling when it comes to
tactility and physical closeness?
If the girl’s not being tactile, how
can a guy develop mutual physical closeness without freaking her out or
scaring her away?
Often men just “GO FOR IT” and consequently end up making the girl
feel UNCOMFORTABLE or even slightly VIOLATED because of their rushed
attempt at physical closeness.
Other men decide they don’t want to risk
putting a girl off, so hold back any kind of touching or bodily
contact – doing so usually sends out the wrong message, that the guy is
either not interested in the girl, or that he’s simply too timid to
show it, neither of which are attractive scenarios in the mind of a
good-looking, fun-loving girl.
Okay, so what’s the SOLUTION to this
awkward problem?
Quite simply, you just need to follow a few basic rules or
procedures, all of which conform to the personal boundaries of most
girl (and therefore don’t appear uncalled for or rushed) but at the
same time clearly indicate that you’re a confident guy who’s not afraid
of getting to know girls and even showing it through casual, relaxed
physical contact. So, let’s take a look.
1) Many men think that touching a girl in any way when they first
meet them is an absolute no-no. But that’s simply NOT TRUE. To form a
positive, strong first impression and create an immediate bond with a
girl when you first introduce yourself or get talking, casually and
gently touch the outside of her right arm while at the same time
verbally expressing something. The outside of a woman’s arm is not
intimate enough a place for the touch to feel strange or out-of-place,
but at the same time it’s a clear-cut sign that you’re a personable,
socially adept kind of guy. Don’t be afraid to give it a try – you’ll
notice the benefits IMMEDIATELY.
2) Once you’ve started a conversation with a girl, or when you
randomly find yourself chatting to a woman you really like the look of,
it’s important to keep up the physical contact. Doing so helps
maintain the bond and rapport you’ve already created and also helps
build it further, into mutually felt sexual attraction. You can use
something called ‘STEALTH TACTILITY’ to do this. Quite simply, stealth
tactility involves making physical contact with the girl in a disguised
way. For example, if she wants to go to the bar or bathroom but doesn’t
know the way, you can use stealth tactility by placing your hand on
her shoulder, drawing her in a little closer, swivelling both of your
bodies round until you face in the right direction, then point past
other people or obstacles with your other hand to where she needs to
go.
3) Lastly, always try to use a 'CONTACT CLOSE' when you finish your
conversation with a girl. For example, after swapping numbers or
arranging to meet again, give her a kiss on the cheek or a hug and a
kiss. Many men think that the hard work’s been done once something’s
been arranged for a later date, but making physical contact before you
part with a girl is always a great way of ensuring she remembers you and
really cannot wait to see you again.
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Article Written By : Tiffany Taylor
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