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Thursday, December 30, 2010

What To Talk To Girls About

Posted by Ritchie Jake | Thursday, December 30, 2010 | Category: | 3 comments


What To Talk To Girls About


Written By : Ritchie Jake



Ritchie Jake Recommends "How To Be Irresistible To Women" For Your Reading

To know more about this book :







Do you often find yourself not knowing what to talk to girls about?
Well, not to worry!
For in this article, I will be discussing on what to talk to girls about.
 
Here are some tips on what to talk to girls about

1) Talk to girls about your dream and ambition

Let the girl know your ambition and dream. Let her know what do you wish to achieve in life. By sharing with her your dreams and ambition, she will know that you are someone who has a purpose and direction in life and not some wandering bum leading life aimlessly.

2) Have a sensor of humour - Throw in a few jokes and stories

Having a sensor of humour is definitely beneficial in keeping the conversation flowing continuously.
Share with her funny things that have happened in your life or funny jokes which you have heard from others.
Knowing when to include funny stories or jokes in midst of the conversation will trigger her to laugh . This is important as she will view you as interesting person to hang out with and will thus, hang out with you more.

3) Let her talk more about herself

As quoted by The Dalai Lama "Sometimes one creates a dynamic impression by saying something, and sometimes one creates as significant an impression by remaining silent."
All girls are born to be talkative.
Therefore, don't be afraid to let a girl talk more about herself. Actively listen to what she says and be receptive to what she is saying .Show interest to what she is saying. Let her know that you are a good listener and she will be more keen to share with you her problems and woes. Over time, her interest in you will increase gradually.

4) Play around - show her your playful nature occasionally

This is an awesome technique to master, especially if your conversation has reached a stagnant point and you are totally clueless about what to talk about with her.
Here is a good trick in tackling awkward silences.
Laugh to yourself when there is a moment of silence in the conversation. Your laughter will trigger her curiosity and will prompt her to ask you" hey, what are you laughing about, care to share? " When she ask you this, you reply in a sneaky way that will trigger more of her curiosity hormones, " Nah, nothing much, you won't want to know, is a guy thing." She will then respond, " tell me, I want to know! ". So there you go, an awesome technique to lighten the mood.
It will also show that you are someone who is a relaxed, and not too serious person - a characteristics which girls like.

Now, let me ask you this…  Do you wish to be the chick magnet that every man will be envious  of or are you going to be just some lonely loser for the rest of your life !?

If being a chick magnet is what you want , then you will have to know how to achieve great success with women Today !

And in order to achieve great success with women, you will need to know what women are thinking ! I have put together some great tips that will help you in this FREE report – FREE Dating Report

Grab your FREE dating report today and before you know it… hot babes will start flocking towards you in no time !

Article Written By : Ritchie Jake 

Want to be irresistible to women? Check Out "How To Be Irresistible To Women" E-book Today !

"How To Be Irresistible To Women" is an E-book which discusses on the various methods and techniques on how to impress a women depending on their mental approach and outlook towards life

To learn more about how this dating guide differ from other dating guide or want to read in-depth review about it , click below :







What Do Women Find Attractive In Men

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What Do Women Find Attractive In Men

Written By : Ritchie Jake





Ritchie Jake Recommends Fireworks With Women
To know more about this book :







Do you belong to the confused group of guy who are clueless about what do women find attractive in men?
Well, if you are, then you are not alone!
Lots of guys like you are spending a great amount of time daily, looking for info about what do women find attractive in men.

In  this article, I am going to share with you the secrets about what do women find attractive in men.

1st quality women find attractive in men - Intelligence

Women find intelligent men to be very attractive, especially when the man is very informative and knowledgeable in a particular field.
Women like to talk about sociological and issues about the world.
If you are able to speak well about a vast range of topics, the girl will be impressed by your intelligence and knowledge. In short, girls want a man who is better informed and more knowledgeable than them.
They want someone who can make them go "Wow, this guy sure knows a lot!".

2nd quality women find attractive in men - Style

Ever gone out dating with a girl before? If you have, then you will know how meticulous women are about their outer appearance.

Women will spend on average about 3 hours to shop for the best outfit and shoes for the date. They will then spend another 2.5 hours dolling themselves up, preparing themselves for the big date. Now, compare the amount of time women spent in their preparation with the amount of time you spent ( probably 15 mins or less? ) in preparing yourself for the date and you will get my point.
Women spent a great deal of time preparing themselves for the date.Therefore, they do expect their date to look presentable for the date too. 

And no, being presentable doesn't mean that you have to spend 5 hours preparing yourself for your date. What a guy should do is just to get a couple of nice outfits which suits you well and to keep yourself abreast with the fashion trend .
You can keep yourself abreast with the fashion trend by reading fashion magazines occasionally and learning how to present yourself well in front of women

3rd quality women find attractive in men - Exciting

Women are often attracted to men who are exciting, unpredictable and full of surprises! This is why some women love the bad boys. Do something out of the blue and they will love it! Tell her that you are bringing her out for the weekends but do not tell her where you are bringing her to. Tell her that she will need to prepare some clothing but don't reveal the activities which you have planned for her.Women love surprises! Even small surprises will spice up her life and her interest level in you will raise gradually. Most importantly, you must be unpredictable

Now, let me ask you this…  Do you wish to be the chick magnet that every man will be envious  of or just some lonely loser for the rest of your life !?

If being a chick magnet is what you want , then you will have to know how to achieve great success with women Today !

And in order to achieve great success with women, you will need to know what women are thinking ! I have put together some great tips that will help you in this FREE report – FREE Dating Report

Grab your FREE dating report today and before you know it… hot babes will start flocking towards you in no time !


Article Written By Ritchie Jake 

If you want a girl to be interested in you, Check out "Fireworks With Women" E-book 

"Fireworks With Women" E-book is a dating guide written by a natural with women - Specially written and designed for men who wish to attract women effortlessly and keep the woman by their side.

To learn more about how this dating guide differ from other dating guide or want to read in-depth review about it , click below :







Tuesday, December 28, 2010

Killer Tips on How to Start a Conversation With a Girl

Posted by Ritchie Jake | Tuesday, December 28, 2010 | Category: | 0 comments


Killer Tips on How to Start a Conversation With a Girl



Written By Ritchie Jake



Ritchie Jake Recommends GuyGetsGirl Dating Guide

To know more about this book :


Do you often feel frustrated about yourself for not plucking up the courage to start a conversation with the girl of your dream?
Well, you are not alone! As a matter of fact, there are millions of men around the globe who share the same woes and worry as yours.

Therefore, in this article, I will reveal tips on how to start a conversation with a girl.

First Step: Act Quickly

Good opportunities don't come easy. Therefore ,whenever you see a girl which interests you, you will have to act quickly towards your goal. Hesitation will often lead to time wastage .
Before you know it, she may even leave with her friends and you may not stand a chance to see her again in your life ! Therefore, if you ever see a girl which you like, be fast, walk to the girl and start talking!

Second Step: How to start a conversation with a girl 

Method 1: Use props. For example, if she is taking photographs of the scenery using some high tech DSLR camera, tell her that her camera looks interesting and ask her about the features and functions of her camera.
If she is using a DSLR camera, she is most likely into photography stuff. Therefore, if you will be able to engage a conversation with her about photography, she will be more interested in striking a conversation with you.

Sometimes, You can even create your own props to draw girls to you! A classic example would be a dog. Most girls are hopelessly drawn to cute dogs especially puppies. Bring your dog out for a walk. You will notice that many girls will be drawn to your dog - a good conversation starter to start with!

Method 2: Ask open-ended questions The key to keeping a girl interest in you is to keep the conversation flowing. With that in mind, the taboo questions to ask are those yes or no questions. Some examples of yes of no questions are for example:
Do you like Inception the movie?
Do you Think Leonardo Dicaprio is a good actor?
Do you like the plot of the story? Etc.
These questions can all simply be answered with a yes or no and thereafter, the conversation will just stop there.
You can  change these bad questions to good open-ended questions such as: What do you like about Leonardo Dicaprio? What do you like about Inception the movie? How different do you think Inception are from the other mainstream Hollywood movies?
 Questions asked this way will trigger her to talk more instead of just the boring yes/no answers.

Now, let me ask you this…  Do you wish to be the chick magnet that every man will be envious  of or are you going to be just some lonely loser for the rest of your life !?

If being a chick magnet is what you want , then you will have to know how to achieve great success with women Today !

And in order to achieve great success with women, you will need to know what women are thinking ! I have put together some great tips that will help you in this FREE report – FREE Dating Report

Grab your FREE dating report today and before you know it… hot babes will start flocking towards you in no time !

Article Written By : Ritchie Jake

If you want to know more about how women think , check out "Guygetsgirl" E-book

"GuyGetsGirl" E-book is one of a kind dating guide written by a woman - providing a revolutionary new approach towards approaching women for men 

To learn more about how this dating guide differ from other dating guide or want to read in-depth review about it , click below :







Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Top 5 telltale signs a girl is attracted to you

Posted by Ritchie Jake | Tuesday, December 21, 2010 | Category: | 0 comments



Top 5 telltale signs a girl is attracted to you

Written By : Ritchie Jake





Ritchie Jake Recommends Fireworks With Women
To know more about this book :







The top telltale sign a girl is attracted to you will be to observe her body language.
By observing her body language, you can tell signs a girl is attracted to you. 

Lets take a look at some of the common signs a girl is attracted to you

Her eyes are always on you.

If a girl is constantly making eye contact with you and often looking at you during conversation, she is most probably interested in you. On a lighter note, it could also be that your face is stained with something which draws her attention to you.

She Finds you funny always

If you find that the girl is always laughing at your bad jokes and Is easily humoured by you, there is a pretty high chance she is attracted to you. By laughing at your jokes, she is showing a sign of support and interest towards you especially when you are telling jokes which are so bad that nobody is laughing expect her.

She Remembers every detail about you

If she is able to remember every detail of you ( such as whats your favourite colour, favourite food, favourite drinks etc ), then she is definitely interested in you. By remembering every likes and dislikes of your personal life, she is showing that she care about you and you hold an important position in her heart.

The lips motion

Obvious lips motion such as biting lips or licking them is a clear sign that she finds you attractive. As a matter of fact, when you see a girl doing all the lips motion, she is actually seducing you with the most sexiest organ used during sexual intimacy - the lips!

The color tone of her face

Our heart will naturally beat faster when we are attracted to somebody. The increase in heartbeat will often result in flushed face and sweaty palms. So, next time if you see that a girl face is always flushed when she goes out with you, she is most likely interested in you.


Now, let me ask you this…  Do you wish to be the chick magnet that every man will be envious  of or just some lonely loser for the rest of your life !?

If being a chick magnet is what you want , then you will have to know how to achieve great success with women Today !

And in order to achieve great success with women, you will need to know what women are thinking ! I have put together some great tips that will help you in this FREE report – FREE Dating Report

Grab your FREE dating report today and before you know it… hot babes will start flocking towards you in no time !

Article Written By Ritchie Jake 

If you want a girl to be interested in you, Check out "Fireworks With Women" E-book

"Fireworks With Women" E-book is a dating guide written by a natural with women - Specially written and designed for men who wish to attract women effortlessly and keep the woman by their side.

To learn more about how this dating guide differ from other dating guide or want to read in-depth review about it , click below :







Top 10 Pick Up Lines For Guys To Use On Girls

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Top 10 pick up lines for guys to use on girls


Written By Ritchie Jake



Ritchie Jake Recommends GuyGetsGirl Dating Guide

To know more about this book :


Well, before I reveal to you the top 10 pick up lines for guys to use on girls, you will first need to know how to deliver your pick up lines effectively.

You need to be confident when delivering a cute pick up line and at the same time, not appearing to be too serious or even worse - stammer when you are delivering your pick up line.
Good eye contact should be made at all times.
 You need to let her know from your voice that you are just trying to be cheeky.

With these pointers in mind, here are the top 10 pick up lines for guys to use on girls

1) Hey! I know You! You resemble someone I know! My next girlfriend to be!

 2) Have you encountered before a guy following you street after street (or into a shopping mall or bookshop) just because he liked your smile? 

3) Are you a denture in disguise? Because I find myself unable to smile without you. 

4) You are in my top list to blog about today! 

5) Hi, did you just drop this? (Hold out a penny, pen.) 

6) What does it feel like to be the most beautiful girl on the streets/in this room/in the pub/in the bar?

 7) Hi. Can I borrow a quarter please? I promised mymom that I would call her when I met the girl of my dreams. 

8) Wow. I didn't know that angels are given off days to roam on earth. You surprise me!


9) If I am given a chance to rearrange the alphabets, I would put U and I next to each other. 

10) Hi. Can I take a picture of you please? I would like to show Santa Clause my Christmas wish.


Now, let me ask you this…  Do you wish to be the chick magnet that every man will be envious  of or just some lonely loser for the rest of your life !?

If being a chick magnet is what you want , then you will have to know how to achieve great success with women Today !

And in order to achieve great success with women, you will need to know what women are thinking ! I have put together some great tips that will help you in this FREE report – FREE Dating Report

Grab your FREE dating report today and before you know it… hot babes will start flocking towards you in no time !


Article Written By : Ritchie Jake

If you want to know more about how women think , check out "Guygetsgirl" E-book

"GuyGetsGirl" E-book is one of a kind dating guide written by a woman - providing a revolutionary new approach towards approaching women for men 

To learn more about how this dating guide differ from other dating guide or want to read in-depth review about it , click below :







Monday, December 20, 2010

Top Tips On How To Turn A Friend Into A Girlfriend

Posted by Ritchie Jake | Monday, December 20, 2010 | Category: | 0 comments



Top Tips On How To Turn A Friend Into A Girlfriend

Written By Ritchie Jake



Ritchie Jake Recommends GuyGetsGirl Dating Guide

To know more about this book :









So you have been friends with this hot girl for some time already and always had some sort of a crush on her. You have always wanted to bring the friendship level into something more - getting her to be your girlfriend.

However, you have no idea on how to turn a friend into a girlfriend .

You are also afraid that your friendship with her may be jeopardized when you wish to bring the relationship with her to a whole new level. 

Does this scenario ring a bell in your life?

Most guys will have come across this scenario at least once in their life, and some have even encountered more than once. 

Here are a few tips on how to turn a friend into a girlfriend :

1st tip on how to turn a friend into a girlfriend - Become even better friends with the person.

Whatever your relationship with her is, always strive to become a better friend.
Show her that you are her best friend and you will be there for her when something goes wrong!
Show her that your care for her is beyond the friendship level.

2nd tip on how to turn a friend into a girlfriend - Don't tell her that you like her YET!

Do not commit this grave mistake by telling her that you like her when you discovered that you have a thing for her!
Keep in mind that your relationship with her is just friends for NOW...
Therefore, if you will to suddenly blurt out that you like her out of the blue, she will definitely be in a terrible shock .
She is not even emotionally ready to hear these words when her definition of you in her dictionary is just a "friend"!
In the worst case scenario, she may even avoid you.

3rd tip on how to turn a friend into a girlfriend - She might also have the same feelings towards you!

The process of turning a friend into a girlfriend will be much easier if you discovered that she has also the same feeling towards you!
You can know this by reading her body language...
Does she always find a chance to set closer to you in group outings?
Does she always like to stick with you during friends outing?
Is she always making eye contact with you?
If both of you have mutual friends, does she only like to spend time alone with you?
These are all telltale signs that she is interested in you !

Now, let me ask you this…  Do you wish to be the chick magnet that every man will be envious  of or just some lonely loser for the rest of your life !?

If being a chick magnet is what you want , then you will have to know how to achieve great success with women Today !

And in order to achieve great success with women, you will need to know what women are thinking ! I have put together some great tips that will help you in this FREE report – FREE Dating Report

Grab your FREE dating report today and before you know it… hot babes will start flocking towards you in no time !

Article Written By : Ritchie Jake

If you want to know more about how women think , check out "Guygetsgirl" E-book

"GuyGetsGirl" E-book is one of a kind dating guide written by a woman - providing a revolutionary new approach towards approaching women for men 

To learn more about how this dating guide differ from other dating guide or want to read in-depth review about it , click below :







Thursday, December 2, 2010

How Ditching The Rules Can Get You More Dates

Posted by Ritchie Jake | Thursday, December 2, 2010 | Category: | 0 comments



How Ditching The Rules Can Get You More Dates

Written By Slade Shaw




Slade Shaw is also the author of "Fireworks With Female"

To know more about this book :








Are you lost in a sea of information, grasping to find the real deal on how to attract a woman FOR KEEPS?  Does it seem like there’s a new book coming out every week, leaving you deeper in confusion about which advice to take??Worse, you have friends and colleagues giving you their own unique take on what works and what doesn’t work in a relationship. 

The World Wide Web is filled to the brim with all sorts of conflicting information, and it’s hard to make sense of it all,If all of the things those authors have tried in their own lives have worked for each and every one of them…why do their books cancel each other out??

There can be only so many versions of the truth out there; it can drive an average guy NUTS.Well, this is where your INNER VOICE comes into play.  It’s really up to you to decide which piece of advice would work BEST with your unique circumstances. 

And there are a lot of useful books out there that offer SENSIBLE, REAL-LIFE guidance on not only having an awesome love life, but a great lifestyle in general.

If you want such a guide to help you make sense of things, you should check out the definitive guide for guys:

Fireworks With Female Dating Guide


You need to pick this up if you want to be at your best, most authentic self that the ladies will fall for.

Yet, there are a lot of so-called dating experts who are - honestly speaking – pouring POISON into the collective ear of the male population.  I mean, there’s just a TON of B.S. floating around on the web as well as in print media.

There are a lot of so-called dating experts who are - honestly speaking – pouring POISON into the collective ear of the male population.  I mean, there’s just a TON of B.S. floating around on the web as well as in print media.The stuff I’m talking about here is RULES.  Strict, rigid rules that will only curse you to singlehood ‘til kingdom come.  

I have to tell ya, a lot of my own friends have been badly burned from following a bunch of arbitrary “dating laws”.  What you might not know is that these rules only serve to make clueless guys even MORE narrow-minded than they were before.I get where these rules are coming from though.  With dating, so much can go wrong; believing that certain regulations within a clearly-defined system could somehow bring order to a chaotic environment.And from a theoretical standpoint, following rules will safely keep you out of harm’s way (such as being rejected, getting dumped, etc.).  

However, real life doesn’t work like that.

Personally, I’m more of a “go with the flow” kinda guy.  I like to size up a situation and respond to it accordingly without a bunch of rules dictating my every move like I was some machine.Sorry to burst your bubble, but you can’t put the world of relationships into neat little compartments as if it was a science experiment.  Some people look at social dynamics in the same way as a computer program driven by inflexible rules (read: NOT true), and so they repeatedly run into DISASTER. 

The thing is…a healthy, stable relationship (long-term or otherwise) isn’t brought about by religiously adhering to these “laws” like your life depended on it.  Adaptability, creativity and RESPECT towards women will give a set of dumb rules an ass-whooping any day.Most of these “unbreakable” rules revolve around game-playing, manipulation and utter disregard for a woman’s sensibilities.  

Let’s take a look:- The best way to bring a woman down a couple of notches is to take a few pot shots at her ego.  The more beautiful she is, the more aggressive your disguised insults need to be.- Before you get involved with someone new, you first need to give yourself an allowance of X number of years or months after breaking up with your previous girlfriend.- After a date, wait X number of days before calling her back.- You’ll need to approach a woman within X number of seconds of spotting her.What a doozy huh?

If I didn’t know better, I’d be following these rules like crazy before I ultimately run my love life to the ground.The people who came up with these rules are probably projecting their own experiences.  Therefore, it’s basically made to serve their OWN needs rather than every guy out there.  Everybody’s situation is different, so you can’t expect to use these rules as a one-size-fits-all kind of glove for the ENTIRE dating scene.  

These laws won’t work for every single guy in the known universe, so it’s really pointless to follow them to the letter.It’s more important to have a PERSONALITY that’s suited to the dating world.  The truth is that you can’t substitute your real self with these rules.  A personality defined by self-confidence and non-neediness will be your best guide to making the RIGHT DECISION.  Rules don’t really capture the spirit of healthy dating – they MIGHT work for you this one time, but it doesn’t follow that your precious rules will get you consistent results!On the flip side, I can honestly appreciate the IDEA behind these rules, which is to prevent you from getting burned.  

Yet, narrowing general guidelines down to extremely specific tenets simply won’t work for all situations.For instance, pinning down the exact number of days before calling ANY woman you date is just plain silly.  I mean yeah, you don’t want to look super EAGER or NEEDY, but don’t you think the level of attraction will VARY from girl to girl?

Maybe a certain date of yours seemed really interested to see you again, while another woman wasn’t all that receptive to your advances.  That simply means you can’t expect to apply one rule to two different people.

Since I’m feeling like a nice guy today, I’ll give you some quick pointers on the ideas BASED on the rules we talked about:

1)Don’t act like a woman’s approval is your sole reason for living.  

Seeking validation from someone other than yourself is NOT attractive.- If she catches on that you’re so DESPARATE to be in a relationship, you might end up driving her away.

2)Don’t make a big deal out of approaching a woman.  

You’ll be severely wrecking your chances if you hover around her, acting all jumpy and jittery.Nonetheless, save the algorithms for other things, like rocket science.  You can’t possibly reduce social dynamics down to a mathematical equation.No computer can intelligently decipher the complex patterns of human behavior – your BRAIN is the only tool that can do that.Sure, rules may help you out when you’re new to the dating scene, but in the long run you’ll need to cut the umbilical cord and come into your own. 

Eventually, you’ll have to be someone that has a good amount of common sense and good judgment and won’t need a bunch of rules to tell him what to do.Furthermore, these rules pale in comparison to simply being a man who oozes with HIGH VALUE…instead of pretending to be one.You can only get so far with pre-packaged templates for how to act around women.  In fact, putting up an act will put you at risk of women seeing right through the smoke and mirrors (which is what the rules are all about).  Instead, you’re better off cultivating a genuine personality that’s consistent in word and deed.  Saying one thing and doing another is NOT the way to relationship bliss.

Thus, you should be focusing on developing attraction by investing in the self-confidence that’s *already* lurking within you.  And in order to pull that off, drop by and check out this course:


I highly suggest you check this out BEFORE you fall into the trap of playing deceptive mind games with your woman.  This is your best bet to becoming the ideal version of yourself that’ll leave the ladies swooning.

Now, let me ask you this…  Do you wish to be the chick magnet that every man will be envious  of or just some lonely loser for the rest of your life !?

If being a chick magnet is what you want , then you will have to know how to achieve great success with women Today !

And in order to achieve great success with women, you will need to know what women are thinking ! I have put together some great tips that will help you in this FREE report – FREE Dating Report

Grab your FREE dating report today and before you know it… hot babes will start flocking towards you in no time !

 Article Written By : Slade Shaw

Slade Shaw is also the author of "Fireworks With Women" E-book .

"Fireworks With Women" E-book is a dating guide written by a natural with women - Specially written and designed for men who wish to attract women effortlessly and keep the woman by their side.

To learn more about how this dating guide differ from other dating guide or want to read in-depth review about it , click below :