Monday, November 29, 2010
How To Meet Women - Through Social Network
Posted by Ritchie Jake | Monday, November 29, 2010 | Category:
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How To Meet Women - Through Social Network
Written By Slade Shaw
Extending your circle
of friends into the virtual world.
There’s a huge chance you and your friends
(and their cute friends) are probably part of an online social network such as
the insanely popular Facebook. Sites like these are an excellent place to
complement your dating pursuits.If you’re already on one of these sites, check
to see if your existing profile needs to be polished. This is a key
component of your online efforts because your profile acts as a sort of social
resume which should complement the most attractive aspects of your personality.
As a general rule of thumb,
your profile should have just enough information to give everyone a hint of
what a great guy you are, but not too long that it becomes boring to read. In
the description, avoid putting anything cheesy or pretentiously
highfalutin. It’s especially bad to make any direct or indirect
references to sex because that just screams“DESPERATE”.The vibe a reader should get is that you’re a cool guy
who does and likes a lot of things. So include information about your
hobbies, interests, passions or anything else that makes you a balanced and
interesting kinda guy. As for the relationship status, go with “single
and looking to date” or any similar option to that effect.
Of course, any self-respecting social
networking site will allow its users to post photographic evidence of their hip
and happening adventures in the offline world.Whether it’s mountain biking in
the great outdoors or having an awesome time with your friends, your pictures
should feature you in various upbeat social situations for evident reasons. Now
that you’ve sorted out the groundwork, it’s time to put yourself out
there.
Once your friends introduce you to someone
that you find attractive, casually ask her if she’s on one of those sites.After
you’ve added her up, wait for a couple of weeks before you start interacting
with her online.For starters, make a brief but funny comment on one of her
pictures or status messages. While this is subjective ground to walk on,
a lot of people will have the same idea of what’s annoying, creepy or
stalker-ish (which is what you’ll want to AVOID here).
Remember, it needs to be LIGHT-HEARTED and casual at the
beginning.After some time, you should be able to create enough comfort to ask
her out on another group outing. Take the initiative to invite her to an
event that you and your mutual friends are going to.For example, if there’s a
really cool band playing in the area you can tell her that she should come
along because it’s going to be a lot of fun.
Try something like, “Hey
there, we’re going to watch _________ this weekend and I thought you might want
to check them out as well.”Eventually, you’ll be able to casually establish just
the right amount of familiarity with your friend’s friend. If you’re
feeling bold enough, take the chance of asking her out on an exclusive
date.Now, don’t get any images of candlelit dinners or sappy stuff like that
just YET. You don’t want to make the transition too jarring for her,
right?
Start off with something as simple as asking her to come with you
to check out some new releases at the record store or drop by the upcoming art
exhibit at the museum.As casual as these dates may seem, it gives you an edge
because again, she’s not pressured into a romantic scenario. At the same
time, it gives you plenty of time to have shared experiences with her.Who
knows, one thing may lead to another in due time. If things start to
develop between you two, it transpired in a totally relaxed setting.As far as
the feminine perspective is concerned, this is PERFECT. Who is she to
deny fate if the lucky girl ends up being attracted you along the way?
Besides,
she’d be blind not to SENSE your lingering interest behind the
invitation. The cool thing about it is that you’re not telegraphing your
interest too LOUDLY or HASTILY.If she does agree to go out with you, she’s
either on the same page as you are…or is WILLING to see what happens at the
very least.Otherwise, be cool about it and move on with your life.
Whatever happens, you’ll still end up with another friend in your life.
Take comfort in the fact that your flourishing social network is chock-full
other people you can meet.THIS knowledge will keep you from pressuring yourself
– OR her.Just remember that social networking sites are NOT a replacement for a
healthy social life. They’re only a means to meet great women in PERSON,
and not merely exchanging emoticon chats or “pokes” with them.It may take a while
for you to develop your network of online AND offline friends, but you just
need to invest enough time and effort to make it WORK for YOU. Once
you’ve reached a level where you’re always going out and meeting new people,
all you need to do is MAINTAIN it.The bottom line is that it’s NOT HARD at all
to get your foot in the door. You just have to open your mind to the
possibility that ending up with your dream girl can happen in the most casual
or everyday kind of circumstances.
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Article Written By : Slade Shaw
Slade Shaw is also the author of "Fireworks With Women" E-book .
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