Sunday, November 28, 2010
How To Meet Women - Through Friends
Posted by Ritchie Jake | Sunday, November 28, 2010 | Category:
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How To Meet Women - Through Friends
Written By Slade Shaw
Does meeting quality women on a REGULAR basis feel like looking for the proverbial needle in the haystack?If you’re like most guys, you’ve probably gone down the beaten path known as “HITTING THE CLUBS”.
You know what I’m talking about: you and your buddies head to the nearest bar, have a few drinks, and wait for a group of eligible ladies to come your way.Some seduction experts use these venues as their so-called "TRAINING GROUNDS" to get their pupils’ feet wet. The eager hopefuls proceed to test their newly-learned skills on the unsuspecting female population.Although this seems like a sound plan, the women at these places are already EXPECTING to be approached during the night (especially the hot ones!). Then, there’s the possibility of running into a girl who happens to take pleasure in shooting down guys’ ego.
However, this is NOT the only way to meet women and you shouldn’t limit your options to this familiar route.
It may come as a big surprise to you that NOT all gorgeous and brainy women (read: the ones you’re after) are packed like lemmings in bars or nightclubs.Wouldn’t it be nice to meet a nice girl WITHOUT the pre-packaged pressure that comes with the usual places?
Thus, I’d like to talk about the backdoor to the world of seduction. Luckily, these alternate paths to meeting women aren’t some big secret.
Your FRIENDS are an often overlooked avenue to dating bliss. I’m not talking about rounding up the boys for a night out on the town, but rather your overall SOCIAL CIRCLE.This includes, colleagues, high school/college buddies, co-workers and so on. Just think that you’re smack-dab in the middle of a very LARGE web of people who in turn have “webs” of their own.This is a vast field of opportunities that’s just waiting to be tapped.
I’d bet you that a sizeable chunk of these people happen to be (or know) women who fit your preferences.This is where the expression “all the good women are taken” fizzles into the sweet reality of ABUNDANCE. In other words, quality women are hardly in short supply my friend.There are a lot of advantages to be had from taking this route.
1) Your friends can provide the social proofing which you would have to build on you own in a different setting.
Having a friend to introduce you to a promising candidate is a great way to be pre-qualified without having to open your mouth! Being in the company of friends greatly cuts down on the awkwardness factor. Imagine being in a relaxed setting where your end goal is to have a good time – and not getting her phone number right there and then.
Think of it as a “PRE-FIRST DATE”; you get to see how she’s like in social situations, and it’s much easier to ask her out later on since you have the chance to build some rapport first. Plus, you don’t have to worry about keeping one person entertained the whole time either.Most of all, you’ll get to gauge the level of interest between you two – helpful information before taking things up a notch. You get to have a good time while investing in your love life at the same time. If it doesn’t work out, you’ll still have fun so there’s NO PRESSURE to succeed right here and now.
To get into this kind of situation, you can tell your friends outright that you’re on the market. Ask them to bring along any single friends of their own but it doesn’t have to be a blind date.In fact, avoid blind dates altogether because it defeats the very purpose of going out with friends (the lack of awkwardness and pressure).
Instead, just ask your pals to bring along anyone to your group outings.They may even invite you to meet someone who they think might be a good match for you (provided that it’s NOT an actual date). There’s no shame to be found in asking for their help; chances are they’ll be more than happy to set you up.To keep things light and fun, remind your friends not to tell those ladies that you’re on the lookout. All you need is the introduction so you can take it from there.
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Article Written By : Slade Shaw
Slade Shaw is also the author of "Fireworks With Women" E-book .
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